
It’s hard not to be moved by the story. By the end, which culminates in Mapplethorpe’s death from AIDS and Smith’s promise at his deathbed urging to “tell their story”, as she has in this book, I’ll admit to some serious welling up. Mostly I was taken with their growing-up tale, and the way Smith uses short, compact, clipped sentences to tell it. These are two kids, each barely 20 years old, who found each other by happenstance when they each arrived in New York City in 1969, completely broke and in Smith's case, so bereft of connections or money that she was sleeping in public parks in the middle of Manhattan. Both recognized early on that, in this most countercultural of times, all they wanted to do was create art - abstract, ornamental and often sacriligious art for at least their first two years, before they found their individual distinct paths as poet and photographer respectively.
Mapplethorpe and Smith were more or less instant lovers who lived together, and essentially spent every hour not spent working on non-art jobs together. I was sucked in at the recounting of each individual's search for their essential selves in both art and in life. Smith, who didn't drink nor do drugs and who worked a normal 9-5 job in a bookstore to support the couple, was able to unhinder her artistic energies as a result, though it's pretty clear that Mapplethorpe developed faster as a true "artist" despite his depression, lack of focus and often destructive behavior. By the time she'd found herself as the quote-unquote punk poet we know her to be from her 1975-79 albums, Mapplethorpe had already developed a pretty significant body of photographic work - such that it is. He only truly gained artistic fame for his S&M photography and dark, transgressive imagery at the end of his life and after his death. The story of the non-stereotypically "gay" Mapplethorpe trying to tell Smith that he needed to go to San Francisco's Castro district in the early 70s to "figure things out", and her complete inability to understand what he was talking about, is pretty telling at the bond that these two shared. She could not even imagine it could be severed - and the book makes it clear that it really never was.